love sick diaries http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog if love is blind, why is love so damn important? Fri, 16 Mar 2012 03:47:05 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2012/03/16/133/ http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2012/03/16/133/#comments Fri, 16 Mar 2012 03:47:05 +0000 Administrator http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/?p=133 END OF A RELATIONSHIP

END OF A RELATIONSHIP

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Erotic Sexual Denial and the Chastity Belt http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2012/02/24/erotic-sexual-denial-and-the-chastity-belt/ http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2012/02/24/erotic-sexual-denial-and-the-chastity-belt/#comments Fri, 24 Feb 2012 12:35:15 +0000 Administrator http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/?p=130 Continue reading ]]> Whether you realize it or not, man or woman, Asian or White, Jew or Muslim, you have been apart of erotic sexual denial, also known as orgasm denial; from both sides of the coin, a coin simply defined as increasing desire by withholding stimulation. A majority of the time your involvement is unintentional but it is still involvement nonetheless.

This art is truly, when done with intent, is perfected by women across the world, they understand how to control a man’s desire by using the art of teasing and orgasm denial to spice up their sex life in the form making the man and his cock feel submissive to her dominatrix side. When the man experiences this orgasm denial he feels like screaming “Why you want to hate me!!!”

Erotic sexual denial can be described as rejecting specific aspects of stimulation, preserving connection; she uses her teasing methods from the sound of her voice to the subtle touch of your skin with her finger tips, to the gaze in her eyes, to her brushing up closely to you, she knows how to arouse and tempt you and your penis, to the point that you feel like you are going to explode.

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A Lovers Goodbye Letter – Dear J http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2012/01/11/a-lovers-goodbye-letter-dear-j/ http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2012/01/11/a-lovers-goodbye-letter-dear-j/#comments Wed, 11 Jan 2012 11:56:39 +0000 Administrator http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/?p=127 Continue reading ]]> Dear J,

It’s been a year and a half since we last spoke. Many things has happened since then… I moved to a different state, started a new career, and found myself on an emotional roller coaster that I am desperately trying to get off.

I lie awake at nights wondering what happened…….

After dating for many years, I waited for you to call me your girlfriend. Then suddenly you found another girl and you immediately called her your girlfriend.

How stupid of me to pour everything I had into our relationship. How stupid of me to believe that you will love me the way I loved you. I felt deep down that we truly belonged together, yet you strung me along while you waited for another girl.

I tried to move on with my life, but then I found out you got engaged a year after dating her. What hurts me the most, is that the person I loved that couldnt commit to me…. committed to someone else. It left me with so many questions that I ask myself daily……

Why not me?
Why her?
Am I cursed?
Will I ever heal?
Will I ever find another?
Why do I keep meeting others just like you?…..

But I cant find another… not until I get over you…. And thats where my problem lies…. I am desperately trying to mend the wound that you left behind. But I find it harder each day and noticing how much deeper it is that I thought.

I wish I can say everything I wanted to say to you, but I guess the only thing I can say to you is…

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Reasons Girls Cheat http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2011/12/21/reasons-girls-cheat/ http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2011/12/21/reasons-girls-cheat/#comments Wed, 21 Dec 2011 12:55:21 +0000 Administrator http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/?p=122 Continue reading ]]> 1. The relationship isn’t THAT serious
2. Being the bad girl
3. They are bored in the relationship
4. Self-esteem
5. They aren’t getting what they want out of the relationship
6. Exit strategy
7. Not enough sex
8. When he has too much baggage
9. Revenge/payback for past wrongs
10. They won’t leave something for nothing
11. Lack of intimacy
12. Ok, sometimes it is about the SEX
13. Feeling neglected/ignored/underappreciated
14. When things start to go sour
15. Your emotional withdrawal
16. If the relationship gets abusive
17. Bedroom boredom
18. When she doesn’t come first in your life
19. Revenge for your cheating
20. Maybe the other guy is just so damn charming ☺

26. Unexpected slip up from drinking too much (as mentioned by a rockstar drummer)

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Do You Feel Misunderstood By Your Partner? http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2011/12/10/do-you-feel-misunderstood-by-your-partner/ http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/2011/12/10/do-you-feel-misunderstood-by-your-partner/#comments Sat, 10 Dec 2011 12:21:51 +0000 Administrator http://lovesickdiaries.com/blog/?p=120 Continue reading ]]> Sometimes we feel misunderstood by our gf’s, bf’s, husbands, or wives and this can put us in a state mentally that we truly do not desire. You may feel a sense of disappointment, or upset, or even dissatisfied because you are not able to communicate true feelings accurately to the one you love. Your partner is also powerless in understanding you, your mentality, your thoughts and more.

This misunderstanding can drive to significant suspicions about the way your connection may turn out to be with one another. You may dread and fear that your partner will not comprehend you, will not be aware to your needs and wants, you may not sense compatibility with him or her, causing fear there will not be emotional satisfaction due to a lack of understanding.

Reflect on the time that has gone by, and sailed away since you have started this relationship journey. If you journey into the past, realizing that you have not had deep talks, about deep feelings, and haven’t really spent enough time with one another, not just busy time, but real concrete time. The time that helps one another explore each other’s personalities, traits, and digging deep into one another’s soul, it may be natural. Without this sort of time it may be natural that there is a lack of understanding between the both of you.

Before you do anything drastic, maybe let the clock strike seven a few more times, with more meetings taking place, before you make the decision that he or she is truly incapable of understanding you. If you feel, he or she cannot come to understand you for whom you are, than maybe your journey together is not the best journey for your soul.

In addition, contemplate and reflect on your own nature. It can be very likely that your partner is having a hard time in understanding you, as you may be shy, or close yourself off, building walls, or not speaking truthfully about your own self. If you are building walls and doing this type of stuff, you will not reveal your true traits about you, maybe coming across as a moody time bomb that can blow any moment. These things will make it hard for he or she to get and understand you, and he or she will need more support from you to make things easier.

If your partner does not have the maturity, intellect or sensitivity to be in an emotional, and deeply intimate and personal relationship this lack of understanding can be a run on sentence crashing into a real problem that lacks a solution. Sometimes our partners just have not developed the skills of maturity that measure and gauge insight on people and situations, and cannot feel emotions necessary for a deep relationship.

I am not sure what is worse, but some times partners may not be proactive, not wanting or taking a tackling effort to know you more. He or she may just be consumed and worried about his or her own world, not even making the slightest bit of movement to display interest in getting to know and understand the person that you are. Your partner is selfish. You must talk to him or her about your feelings, if he or she displays signs of aggression or destructive behavior, and not accepting his or her lack of interest in learning about you, and does not want to change this either, well you have a decision to make. You must reconsider things, as this is not a relationship. You do not end things soon; you will enter a world of distress.

Mike Ahuja

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